Chapter 19: Myth—Sexuality Doesn’t Matter

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Today, female behavior is even worse. Many women will go out for

sex with a guy on the first date without any compunction. I am encouraged by some statistics I saw that indicate this trend might be changing. It would be best if young women took on some biblical righteousness and started to protect their virginity until marriage.

Given the fact that many women and young girls are morally loose, I told Christopher to be spiritually prepared for unexpected sexual encounters. I would certainly say that this statement about moral looseness applies to

many young women and girls even in the Church today. I told Christopher to imagine what it would be like to be in a private room and alone with a young woman. Suddenly she just takes all her clothes off. Now what?

I can tell you what most sixteen-year old male bodies will want to do.

Being on autonomic autopilot, they would want to jump her bones and have sex. I know that is what my sixteen-year old body would have wanted to do. What will you do? If you don’t have God’s wisdom inside of you, you will probably have sex. However, if you have wisdom’s reason, you will be able

to ignore the fact that you might then have a spontaneous erection due to her body’s naked visual stimulation. Reason will allow you to tell the gal to put her clothes back on. If you truly love her, tell her that you want to save sex for your wedding night. Here’s a novel question. If a girl would put out for

you on your first date or have sex without much work on your part, wouldn’t she do the same for other males she is interested in? Isn’t she a proverbial slut, because she is easy?

Girls, think about this proven fact of the male psyche. No matter how much your boyfriend begs or coerces you to have sex, he will no longer think about you in the same way once you do put out and have sex with him. In fact, you might lose his true affections altogether. This is a strange

attribute of the male psyche that is incontrovertible. A man thinks of a woman differently after they have sex. If a man conquers your sexuality too fast, it will mess his mind over and he might just conclude, “you are easy.”

The male autonomic erection response is turned off at age 58. If a woman suddenly just took off her clothes for me, I just might actually start