Chapter 19: Myth—Sexuality Doesn’t Matter

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The Sexually Confused Need Medical Help!

Men may choose to have sex with other men. Women may choose to have sex with other women. In the case of men with men, they can engage in anal sex pretending it is a woman’s vagina. In the case of women with women, they can obtain an attachable dildo, strap it on one partner and

pretend that one is the male. In both instances, they can swap positions when one partner is finished and the other one wants to be satisfied. Both homosexuals and lesbians are also capable of engaging in simultaneous oral sex and masturbation with one another. I suspect there are also countless

variations on what is physically possible with same gendered sex activities. Does all this sound too clinical? Well, I suppose it is since it describes the physical act of sex but it does not describe the spiritual act of “making love.”

In the physical sense, the male penis and female vagina produce lubricants for each other during sexual mating. In the healthy male and female engaged in heterosexual sex, both of the partners not only produce lubricants, but they are also capable of reaching a simultaneous orgasm with

one another. This simultaneous orgasm transcends the limited act of penile ejaculation in the male because it involves many other organs. This is to say that there is sex that involves ejaculation for the male and that there is sex that involves a male orgasm in which ejaculation is just a part of the male’s

whole experience. In sharp contrast, neither the anus nor the dildo is capable of performing for one’s partner what God has designed into the human body of the heterosexual’s partner to do naturally. And while “getting it off” together might occur in a homosexual or lesbian couple, it would be simple

minded to compare it to a heterosexual couple’s simultaneous orgasm.

The heterosexual’s orgasm can involve the spirituality of the oneness of flesh. This can take the heterosexual couple connected to God to a higher

experience during orgasm, which cannot occur in the homosexual or lesbian act of sex. This is God’s spiritual aspect of sex. Don’t expect God to show up during same gender sex. In contrast, the heterosexual couple that is open to the Spirit will find a sexual freedom that can only exist for those who are truly connected with one another and their God. Those couple’s that have